I don’t have many people I can turn to with this stuff. No one will fully understand my relationship. My boyfriend has changed… He is not himself. It’s like he has no issue with texting me once and calling me for about 4 min. Then saying he has to get off the phone. To me that’s not a relationship. If you really love each other, you would want to talk to your partner a lot longer then 4 min and 1 text all day… He is not as loving anymore, he used to me so sweet, clingy, loving and always wanting to see me, to wanting his space. I now have to ask how much he loves an misses me because i really dont think he loves me as much as he did. He has a lot on his shoulders and stress. I understand that but if that’s the reason he has changed then it shouldn’t be affecting the relationship this much. I don’t feel like we are in a relationship anymore. I love him to much to just give up…but at what point do I have to just move on?:(
Relationships… They are a difficult thing to be in. This is my first REAL relationship, all the others left me after a month because they weren’t getting what they want. Typical guy. I have been in a committed relationship, for 11 months. 1 Month shy of a year, and boy let me tell you… We have bumps… Okay, more like mountains that we go threw. The thing is, what relationship doesn’t? Some relationships fight more then others but we all do it. Relationships are something that you have to be ready for, you have to be mature and it has to be something you want. If its not then it will not work. Not every one has to no every little detail of what going on in my relationship but at the moment we are coming down from a mountain. We have been fighting like its no bodies business lol but obviously we love each other… We have both threatened to end things but nether of us could because we knew we still wanted to be with each other. I believe in god, I may not go to church but I believe and I know I have a loving grandfather watching me up in heaven. If they knew this was not the right passage for me they would have given me that courage to hang up the phone to end things but I never did, because I couldn’t see my self waking up tomorrow morning and my boyfriend not being there. We both are young, we both have things to work on, yes. We will grow as people together helping each other as we go. We will push each others buttons on the way but we will always find a way to find that love that we have each other.